Generally
speaking, most forms of protest are strictly symbolic. It is rare for
protests to gain any leverage because they usually only last a short
time due to peoples lives dictating a need to return to normality.
I was
just flicking through the news and came across this news story from
Togo, (I wasn't aware the nation even existed) a small nation near
the Ivory Coast region of Africa.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/48799090/ns/world_news-africa/
In Togo
however, women have been called to protest by a civil rights group
in order to pressure their husbands into taking action against the
new election rules which prevent fair democratic process.
Fair
enough.
But how
do these women hope to gain a political message through their
husbands? The answer is pretty primal: A sex strike.
Now, at
first this doesn't seem like a bad idea. No man wants to be in the
middle of a dry-spell after all, but then that's when the news story
fails to remain relevant and begins to become hilarious.
For a
start, the 'sex-strike' is only a week long. The vast majority of men
in long-term relationships I know, myself included, know that a week
is hardly the longest time to wait. In fact, Id be overjoyed with the
prospect of sex once a week. This point alone did make me laugh, but
the lols continue.
When
asked about this protest one of the women says:
"It's
a good thing for us women to observe this sex strike as long as our
children are in jail now. I believe that by observing this, we will
get them released," Abla Tamekloe said. "For me, it's like
fasting, and unless you fast, you will not get what you want from
God."
A
noble cause indeed. Except she then goes on to state:
When asked if
her husband would agree, Tamekloe said: "It is easy for me to
observe it. I am used to it, but I am not sure my husband will
accept, but I have to explain to him.”
What the fuck? Why would you need to gain acceptance of your husband if you are protesting. Surely if he agreed with why you were doing it, you wouldn't need to have a sex-strike in the first place?
Ah, but there is more!
Reporting,
the NBC article continues with this chestnut:
"One week
sex strike is too much," said Fabre of the National Alliance for
Change, who suggested a shorter period, amid laughter from the crowd
at the demonstration. "Let's go for only two days".
I know I shouldn't find this story funny, but the irony displayed in this story is just too much to pass up. Most of these women clearly live in abusive relationships, and in a way highlights to today's society just how far women's rights have advanced in the West.
The last paragraph wraps the article up nicely.
"It is easy
for her to say because she is not married herself. She does not live
with a man at home," said Ekoue Blame, a Togolese journalist.
"Does she think women who live with their husband will be able
to observe that? By the way, who controls what couples do behind
closed doors?"
Who
controls what goes on behind closed doors? Well, clearly very abusive
men by the sounds of it.